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Asking For Someone else, Brother, Male, 38 Years old, Gujar Khan
Hi, I’m here to ask help for my brother, he is hashish and alcohol addict, he also smoke sigarettes, I’m very worried about his status, I try to talk to him but he didn’t listen me, can you please suggest me something ?
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Place your appointment with me or any other clinical psychologist according to your range. Only a mental health professional can handle this.
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Asalam o Alaikum... I'm a clinical Psychologist working in a drug rehabilitation center.. you can consult with me for complete assessment and therapy
Be friend , have patience, don't give up.
work on very small steps. it's very difficult to convince an addict , it's not in their control even, thats why take professional help. You only have to agree him to get some professional help, and then stick to that.
U can consult me, I suggest u that anyone in yr family or his friends whom yr brother cares and like to interact will agree and convince him to get proper treatment of drug addiction.
Pllease ask him to seek help from a professional. if possible make him go to a rehabilitation centre for his screening and management.
At this stage of Drug use the patients are in Denial, which means they do not understand the risk of drug use. To create an Insight in them about the risk of drug use is difficult because of their affected judgment. It is recommended to convince them to visit a psychologist because psychologist are trained to create insight in patients regarding their issue.
First of all, history taking is very important ! Professionals can be a good option to consult with drug addicted people. always remember that no treatment can be suggested on a post or comment!
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It's great that you're concerned and want to help.To help your brother struggling with addiction
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Create a safe space where your brother feels comfortable opening up about his struggles.
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Encourage your brother to visit a doctor or psychiatrist to discuss his addiction.
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Look into rehabilitation centers and their programs to find the best fit for your brother.
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Be prepared to offer ongoing support and encouragement to your brother.
Remember that ultimately, it's your brother's decision to seek help. You can't force him, but you can continue to offer support and encouragement.
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In this case first of all you have to admit your client in addiction centre or hospital for proper treatment through medication to eliminate the effect of drugs from his body. And psychological treatment will be continue side by side to deal with his behavioral and emotional issues. He will not understand you because mostly clients don't want to quit addiction because there body needs drugs. Addiction is like a disease that is 100% curable.
I understand your concern for your brother and how difficult it must be to see him struggling with addiction. It's important to remember that addiction is a complex disease, and it's not something he can simply choose to stop doing.
Initially, what you have to do is to encourage your brother to seek professional help. There are many resources available to help people overcome addiction, including therapy, support groups, and medication-assisted treatment.
It's also important to take care of yourself during this time. Addiction can be stressful for both the person struggling and their loved ones. Make sure to prioritize your own well-being and seek support from friends, family, or a therapist.
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I know you're deeply worried about your brother, but addiction recovery starts with willingness. Since he is not listening, avoid confrontation and express concern calmly. Set clear boundaries and don't enable his addiction. Involve a trusted person or seek professional help. Offer support but remember he has to choose recovery himself.
"If he is an alcohol and drug addict, first of all, you should try to keep him away from bad company and admit him to a drug rehabilitation center according to your convenience, and start his treatment."
yeah sure. It requires in detail history and assessment before getting him diagnosed so kindly consult a clinical psychologist . else it depends upon the severity of conditions either he is getting psychotic due to the in take of drugs or not.
Addiction is a complex issue that requires professional intervention. Approach your brother with empathy, avoid confrontation, and encourage him to seek therapy or rehabilitation. Setting boundaries while offering support is crucial. If he refuses help, consider involving a psychologist or support group to guide him toward recovery.
Hi, try to figure out his triggers, in which situation or in which time he smokes, and what makes him feel urge to smoke. try to figure out the situations and urges of your brother
sister I will time taking procedure firstly tell me Is he is wants to get his treatment or not. and is he is in denial or not? if he is in denial then firstly I will work on breaking his denial there is 5 stages of recovery through which they have to passed through for their recovery.
First of all try to deal with him like a normal person, don't let him feel that he is some outward person. Let him feel that u are his friend and there to solve and help him in solving his problem.
Ask him the reason behind the addiction
Ask him all the positive and negative aspects of addiction
Consult with the doctor for proper therapy
First, you need to build a good relationship before consulting and suggesting any professional help.
Hi ,You know better his condition as he is living with you if he has intense response while answering your qustions you must admit him in rehabilitation centre earlier rather his adiction goes more in extreme conditions try to make him in friendly way together with your family support
Thank you for reaching out. Addiction is a serious condition that often needs professional intervention. If your brother is unwilling to talk, I recommend you consult a local psychiatrist or psychologist for a family session. In many cases, early admission to a rehabilitation center is necessary, especially if he is using multiple substances. Your support and consistent efforts can make a difference ty to convince him and build your trust and then take him for professional help.
Hi, thank you for sharing. It’s understandable to be worried, addiction is a serious issue. Since your brother isn’t open to talking right now, try showing care without judgment. Let him know you're concerned because you love him.
You can encourage him to speak with a professional, but don’t pressurize him. Focus on being supportive and set healthy boundaries for yourself. Also, consider getting support for you, talking to a therapist or joining a support group can really help.
You're doing the right thing by reaching out. Keep showing care, and be patient.
remember that addiction is a complex issue and recovery is long term processs.be patient and give support to your brother and encourage him to take step towards seeking help from professional
Drug addiction is a complex issue and it takes time to overcome. You can provide emotional support and care to your brother to gain his confidence and then try to take him for treatment
As an expert Consultant Clinical Psychologist with extensive experience in addiction cases, particularly with alcohol and cannabis dependency, I’d suggest the following immediate and effective steps that you can consider as a starting point:
1. Do not start with confrontation.
People struggling with addiction often show denial and resistance when confronted. Instead, begin with calm, non-judgmental conversations focusing on your concern for his well-being rather than the substances themselves.
2. Initiate a clinical assessment.
A proper psychological and substance use assessment by a qualified professional is essential. It helps identify the severity, frequency, and psychological triggers related to his substance use, and whether there are any co-occurring disorders (like depression, anxiety, or trauma).
3. Consider a structured intervention.
If he refuses help, a well-planned family intervention with professional guidance may help motivate him toward treatment. This is often the turning point for many individuals.
4. Recommend evidence-based therapy options:
Motivational Interviewing (MI) to enhance his internal motivation to quit.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to work on his thinking patterns, triggers, and relapse prevention.
In severe alcohol cases, medical detox and psychiatric support may be required first.
You must seek professional support for yourself too.
Families of addicts often experience emotional burnout. Therapy for yourself will help you stay mentally strong, set healthy boundaries, and avoid enabling behaviors.
he is willing, even a single consultation session could open a door to change. If he’s not, your consistent and informed presence might become the influence he eventually responds to.
If needed, I do offer tailored online therapy sessions through Rehmat MindCare Clinic, and we do work with such cases professionally and discreetly.
Let me know if you’d like to proceed or arrange a session.
Make him understand that Addiction is a disease which not only affects him but family members also. Empathize him with understanding that you know its his compulsive uncontrollable behavior despite negative consequences but its treatable condition and you can recover with professional help.
- Avoid enabling behaviors
- Educate yourself and him about the nature of addiction.
- Tell him that recovery is possible.
- Encourage for treatment and seeking psychologist help
With the right support and treatment, he can overcome addiction and achieve long-term recovery.
Remember, recovery is a journey, and it's essential to be patient, understanding, and supportive throughout the process and patient.
The first step is not to argue or force, but to stay connected with him patiently.
Try to have a calm, honest conversation. Express your concern with love, not anger.
You can gently encourage him to see a counselor or addiction specialist — someone he can talk to freely.
As a clinical psychologist, my advice is to prioritize your own well-being while gently trying to guide him towards professional help. Educate yourself about addiction to approach him with empathy, and set firm, loving boundaries to avoid enabling his substance use. When you speak to him, choose calm, sober moments, focusing on how his actions impact you and the family, using "I" statements rather than accusatory language. While direct intervention can be tough without his willingness, consider options like family therapy or consulting with a psychologist experienced in Motivational Interviewing (MI), which helps individuals find their own reasons for change. Have information on various treatment options (detox, rehab, support groups like NA/AA) ready, but remember that ultimate change must come from him, and your ongoing, supportive presence, coupled with professional guidance, can make a significant difference in his journey towards recovery.
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You can gently encourage your brother to seek professional help without forcing him. Avoid arguments with him and encourage close family members to show care, not criticism. Speak to him when he is calm. And try to seek professional help. Likewise, you can book your appointment with me for further consultation.
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I will suggest you to Get immediate consultation from a Rehabilitation Center or drug center. They will properly guide you regarding treatment
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Don't Argue blame or shame him. Don't force are threaten rehab immediately it will resistance don't try to fix everything alone. Speak with calm, love, and firm boundaries. Focus on how is addiction is affecting his health, not his morals. Try saying: I am not here to control you I just care about your health your peace, and our family's peace.
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Well, you can take him to some place where the environment is very good n freshing take care of him so he could understand that you care for him n you really want to help him to come out of this situation.
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First of All try to Calm him and then don't be harsh on him, Give him some Emotional Support after that you can Contact me either through personal visit or Video Consultation
Speak with your loved one about seeking help, but do so with patience and compassion. Avoid blame or shame. Instead, express concern and offer to help find resources or even go with them to appointments. If you're unsure how to approach the conversation, consider working with an intervention specialist for guidance.
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Its understandable that you are deeply worried about your brother. In addiction, change doesn't happen until a person themselves recognise its negative impact in his daily functioniong or towards his socio-occipational life. As a family member, you can develop healthy boundaries with him and avoiding enabling bheaviours ( such as covering up for him or giving money for particularly drugs). Develop a good rapport with him, try to communicate your concerns without judgement and pressure by ensuring him help is avaiable whenever he's ready. You might can seek family counseling to better cope with your distress and to understand addiction better. Family support is significant in motivating client's attitude towards help.
It’s really good that you’re reaching out for your brother — that shows how much you care. Addiction can be tough, but recovery is possible with the right help. Try to talk to him calmly and show concern instead of anger. Encourage him to meet a psychologist or visit a rehab center where he can get both medical and emotional support. Don’t lose hope — change takes time, and your support means a lot for his healing.
if you ask frequently the same question, your brother will be more conscious and try to hide their things that can be pushed to him to access drugs. in this time give him confidence and help him to resolve his entire issues, also help him to stay away from such communities that encourage him to take more and more drugs.
its difficult to build insight and make them ready for treatment in addiction cases so firstly you've to distant him from drugs by isloation and medications so his mind can process rightly first after some weeks then start his counselling / therapy with medications .
I'm really sorry to hear about what you and your brother are going through. Addiction to hashish, alcohol, and cigarettes can be very overwhelming for the whole family, and it’s completely understandable that you’re worried.If your brother is willing, we can begin treatment through an online session here on Marham. I would be happy to guide him step by step in a confidential and supportive environment
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Thank you for showing that you care about your brother. To help him best, you should follow three simple steps:
Talk with Kindness: Show him you are worried about him because you love him. Do not get angry or blame him, as this makes him want to hide.
Suggest a Doctor: Gently ask him to talk to a doctor or a counselor. People often listen better to a professional helper than to family.
Set Clear Rules: Decide on simple rules you will stick to, like not giving him any money for drugs or alcohol, to help him take responsibility.
Drug addiction or alcoholism is a family disease, it's nature is chronic, progressive, primary and potentially fatal. It has a proper treatment based on 12 steps programme, it's only managed by counseling sessions.
Choose the right moment (when he’s sober/calm).
Example: “Can we talk for 5 minutes? I’m not here to fight.”
• Reflect, don’t correct (this reduces defensiveness).
Example: “I see you’re using these things to cope with stress.”
• Link use to consequences he cares about, not morals.
Example: “You said you want a stable job—this might be getting in the way.”
• Offer help, not control.
Example: “If you ever want to talk to a doctor or counselor, I’ll go with you.”
i understand your concern. Addiction often makes a person resistant to advice, even from family. Try to talk to him calmly when he is sober, without blaming or arguing, and express concern for his health. Encourage him to see a psychiatrist or addiction specialist, as professional help is very important. Continue offering support, but remember you can not force change—he must be willing to seek help.
I'm sorry to hear that, you should try to talk with him calmly and with the insurance of confidentiality of his problem. Also involves such a person that is worth able or important for him, so Then bring him for consultation.
I understand it is hard when a loved one does not listen to advice. For people who refuse treatment, I use a special method called Motivational Interviewing. This helps them find their own reasons to quit drugs and alcohol.
I also use Behavioral Techniques from my experience at BASES Inc. to help change habits. With my background at NIRM and IMC, I can teach your family how to talk to him so he feels supported, not pressured. Please book an online session so we can plan the best way to help your brother start his recovery.
Consult a Psychiatrist for prescription and start session with a psychologist for motivational change
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I understand your difficulty. Managing hashish and alcohol addictions necessitates professional assistance because these substances have a substantial impact on both mental and physical health. your brother is resistive to direct communication, I propose scheduling a therapeutic session to explore specialized communication skills and a recovery plan. I provide private therapy sessions via online video consultation, which can be a comfortable first step for him. You may schedule an appointment using my profile.
Hi, I get how heavy this is for you and your brother. Here are some steps you can try to help him:
1. *Get professional help*: Encourage him to see a doctor or addiction specialist who can assess his condition and suggest rehab or detox programs. You can also look for counseling services that deal with substance abuse.
2. *Intervention*: Organize a non‑judgmental intervention with close family or friends. Make it clear you care about his health and want him to get treatment. Keep the focus on love and support, not blame.
3. *Motivate him to quit smoking*: Suggest he join a smoking‑cessation program or use nicotine replacement therapy alongside his addiction treatment.
4. *Supportive environment*: Remove or limit access to hashish, alcohol, and cigarettes at home. Create a positive atmosphere that promotes healthy habits.
5. *Educate him*: Share factual info about the health risks of hashish, alcohol, and smoking, and the benefits of quitting.
6. *Follow‑up care*: After treatment, help him with aftercare programs, therapy, or support groups to prevent relapse.
You might also want to check local addiction treatment centers or hotlines in your area for specific resources and guidance tailored to his needs.
What’s your brother’s current attitude toward seeking help? Do you need tips on how to approach him for an intervention?
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Drug addiction never trear just in once day. Admit your patient in rehabilitation center and complete treatment. You will get best results.
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Drug addiction never trear just in once day. Admit your patient in rehabilitation center and complete treatment. You will get best results.
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Drug addiction never trear just in once day. Admit your patient in rehabilitation center and complete treatment. You will get best results.
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Drug addiction never trear just in once day. Admit your patient in rehabilitation center and complete treatment. You will get best results.
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Admit your patient in hospital or rehabilitation centre and complete the treatment of addiction.
he needs counselling and therapy
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