Talk to Internal Medicine on Swelling, Extreme Arm And Leg Pain, Arm Numbness, Memory And Speech Issues

My mother is on multiple blood thinners and has a history of uncontrolled high blood pressure. She is currently experiencing confusion, poor memory, speech issues, severe pain and weakness in her arms and legs, arm numbness in her right arm, muscle wasting, facial swelling, new strange swellings on her forehead (she describes it as "Khoon jama hua hai"), bruising across her body, and vision changes (describes it as watery). We are extremely concerned about the possibility of internal bleeding or neurological events such as a stroke or brain bleed. Please evaluate urgently. Her father and older brother both passed away around the same age due to heart attacks.

This has been going on for several years and progressively getting worse every year.

She refuses to go see a doctor but I want some indication as to what might be going on with her so I can convince her better because it seems very urgent to me.