Talk to Sexologist on Erectile Problem

Assalam o alaikum, it is an urgent post and kindly approve it.

I want a comment from a medical doctor or sexologist. I have been to many doctors but the problem remains there.

I am a married person and trying to conceive.

Aik toh mujhy kabhy kabhar erection problem ho jata hai . Khaas kar activity se pehlay Kuch samjh nhi aa Raha ke kiya karun.. urologist ne mehngy se mehngy dawa dedi Lekin waqty farq parta hai aur masla dubara ajata hai. ab yeh kabhy kabhar se barh kar ziayada baar yeh problem aa rahy hai.

Hard to bear expensive medicines and my marriage depends on this matter.

Shaadi ko 1.6 years ho gaye hein. 9 months tak sab set tha but phir yeh problem start. I feel that I have depression issues due to childhood traumas

Please give advices for it is physical or psychological.