Talk to Psychiatry on Going Through Severe Disruptions In Life
Asking For Self, Male 24, kamalia
Hi Doctor, I’ve had long-standing mental health issues since childhood. I form intense attachments (mostly toward males), idealize people, become obsessive (excessive texting/calling/stalking), and feel extreme distress when they leave. I struggle with emotional instability, anger, identity and goal changes, compulsive behaviors (including excessive masturbation and repetitive “new life” fantasies), and difficulty adjusting to change. I sometimes feel paranoid, have thoughts of harming others (without acting), and occasional suicidal thoughts. Past clinicians have suggested OCD, BPD, or bipolar disorder, and I’m confused about the diagnosis and whether I should see a psychiatrist or psychologist first.
Dr. Tahir Mehmood - Psychiatrist
MBBS, FCPS (Psychiatry) | Kohat
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Asst. Prof. Dr. Zarrar Akbar Chaudhry - Psychiatrist
MBBS, DIP (Psychiatry), FCPS (Psychiatry) | Lahore
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Dr. Shah Muhammad - Psychiatrist
MBBS, FCPS Psychiatry, MCPS Psychiatry, MRCPsych (UK) | Islamabad
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thank you for being open and honest about your symptoms and no doubt the symptoms you describe are difficult and distressing.What you describe can fit into more than one condition (like OCD, bipolar spectrum or borderline traits), so confusion about diagnosis is common. Usually it’s the pattern over time that matters, not one symptom.
Strong attachments, emotional swings and distress when people leave are often related to emotional regulation and sense of self, not a personal flaw.
Dr. Shah Muhammad - Psychiatrist
MBBS, FCPS Psychiatry, MCPS Psychiatry, MRCPsych (UK) | Islamabad
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thank you for being open and honest about your symptoms and no doubt the symptoms you describe are difficult and distressing.What you describe can fit into more than one condition (like OCD, bipolar spectrum or borderline traits), so confusion about diagnosis is common. Usually it’s the pattern over time that matters, not one symptom.
Strong attachments, emotional swings and distress when people leave are often related to emotional regulation and sense of self, not a personal flaw.
Dr. Samia Khan - Psychiatrist
MBBS, DCH, MS Clinical Psychology, MSc Psychology, MCPS Psychiatry | Lahore
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Hey, from all that you have narrated, it seems obvious that you have been and still are going through a lot of distress. I can understand your pain.
It seems that you are carrying a huge amount of childhood baggage. As I was going through the symptoms that you've mentioned, I stopped and pondered on the occasional suicidal thoughts.
My next question would be, have you ever made a plan regarding bringing this to action? Have you ever attempted to do so? Have you ever discussed this with someone you trust?
If the answer to any of these questions is Yes, then I'll advise you to seek one-on-one professional help. In case your answer to all these is No, then you need to perform the technique named DBT. All techniques are out there on YouTube, but being attached with a licensed clinical psychologist and performing under supervision is much safer. You will remain committed and accountable.
In case there is sleep disturbance or any change in your appetite, medications may be required. For that, you'll require to visit a psychiatrist.
Whatever you may decide, I am here to offer you my help, in both the cases. Take care.
Patient
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thank you so much for your kindest words..they really mean a lot especially the statement that I can overcome it even on my own using dialectical behavioural therapy techniques. I'm myself a student of psychology. one question, is self-administered DBT effective? and once again thank u so much.
1 month ago
MBBS, DCH, MS Clinical Psychology, MSc Psychology, MCPS Psychiatry | Lahore | Book Appointment
My pleasure. Always here to help.
DBT is a very effective therapy. Like I mentioned earlier, it is always better to remain under supervision because it keeps you committed and accountable. Being accountable to someone is a total commitment in itself.
In my opiniin, it is best to attach yourself to a clinical psychologist, whom you can trust and feel safe with.
Wish you great health and complete healing.
1 month ago
The symptoms you mentioned are of BPD and it can sometimes present with episodic states of psychosis or any other psychistric illness...you need to see a psychiatrist first and then a psychologist for management of both personality and psychiatric illness
Patient
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I'm a long term patient of Dr. palvisha and Dr. kaynat from DHQ Fsd.but since I've moved out from Faisalabad, that's why I've been asking what to do now...but thank you so much for your help. means a lot.
1 month ago
you need psychological sessions for further evaluation and treatment of your problems, if feasible book your appointment now.
Rizwan Ali Khan - Clinical Psychologist
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Thank you for reaching out with your question. I understand your concern. To help you with treatment a detailed assessment is essential. I recommend you to book an online appointment for further assistance.
You need a Psychological session to manage these thoughts effectively. You can consult me for an assessment and therapy.
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