Talk to Urologist on Sperm In Urine

Hello,

I have been facing an issue for last 3 to 4 years and that is about urine and sperm, when the urine discharges, initially it comes out with mixed sperm, the color of the urine becomes milky white, and it continues with gap of some seconds, after getting free, I feel weakness and sometimes my legs/foots/teeth get shiver, and now I have been facing continues pain around the backbone.

4 to 5 years back, I was addicted to masturbate twice in a week and for 2 years I'm doing it maximum 2 to 3 times in 6 months. I feel too much tiredness and laziness. If I get wet dream, I feel tiredness/laziness in the morning and leaving bad in the morning becomes very difficult for me. My memory is getting weaker day by day.

I'm looking to get married but I afraid that I'm not ready for that my discharge timing is about 5-10 seconds.

Currently I am 50 kgs and trying to gain weight.

Looking forward for best answers.

Thank you.