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Asking for Someone Else, Mother, Female, 69 years old, Gujranwala
My mother is around 69–70 years old; my father remarried two years ago when he was 69 and she was 67, which broke our family apart and left her deeply heartbroken and in complete shock that she has never been able to accept. He moved out of the house, Since then she is almost always overwhelmed with anger, constantly crying, cursing him and speaking bitterly in anger, whenever they try to talk to each other they fight endlessly because of the third person involved, and it pains me greatly to see her trapped in this suffering. Worse still, she repeats the same painful story to every relative, neighbour or guest we meet, and speaks very badly about my father and his new wife openly on all occasions, which is becoming increasingly difficult for everyone around her. Our father’s betrayal left us all broken, even I was in therapy for last 6 months bcoz of this. When we gently tell her not to speak like this cuz it only increase her anger and frustration, if we tell her not to tell people same story or talk about him cuz people make don’t care, she becomes defensive, insists “I have not said anything at all”, and often does not even remember or understand what she herself has said or how hurtful it sounds. I feel like this situation has initiated dementia, I am writing urgently seeking guidance on which specialist or doctor in the Gujranwala area would be best suited to help her, ideally a psychiatrist who understands grief, age marriage related emotional changes and confusion before things get any worse.
Dr. A Z Barkat Ullah - Psychiatrist
MCPS Psych (Pakistan), MRC Psych (UK), MBBS | Lahore
Very sorry to hear the family situation and how is it effecting u all. Happy to do few seasions to let emotions and anger managed … we cant change our life situation but can change our reaction to it…. Book on marham online as i m UK based
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AOAWRWB Thank you for reaching out at marham. I understand your family is going through a difficult time and your mother would definitely benefit from psychiatric care. If you want to visit a psychiatrist in GRW, I would recommend Dr Syed Zahid Qutab, he is available in Central hospital as per my knowledge. You can reach out to him through this platform. Hope this will help your family.
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MBBS, FCPS Psychiatry ( Gold-Medalist ), Fellow, College of Physicians & Surgeons, Pakistan, Certificated Child & Adolescent Psychiatry. Consultant Psychiatrist & Expert in the treatment of Psychiatric, Neuropsychiatric, Drug addiction & Sexual disorders | Karachi
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آپ کی والدہ جس صدمے سے گزری ہیں، اس کے بعد مسلسل غصہ، رونا، ایک ہی واقعہ بار بار دہرانا اور دوسروں سے تلخی سے بات کرنا واقعی گہری emotional distress کی علامت ہو سکتا ہے۔ یہ کیفیت prolonged grief، depression، anxiety یا adjustment difficulties سے متعلق ہو سکتی ہے۔ بعض اوقات شدید depression میں توجہ اور یادداشت متاثر ہو جاتی ہے، جسے عام زبان میں pseudodementia کہا جاتا ہے؛ یہ حقیقی dementia نہیں ہوتا اور علاج سے بہتر ہو سکتا ہے۔ تاہم عمر اور بھولنے کی شکایت کی وجہ سے dementia کو بھی باقاعدہ assessment کے بغیر رد نہیں کیا جا سکتا۔
بہتر ہوگا کہ انہیں psychiatrist کو دکھائیں۔ ضرورت کے مطابق memory testing، ادویات کا جائزہ، نیند، thyroid، vitamin B12، شوگر اور دیگر جسمانی وجوہات بھی دیکھی جا سکتی ہیں۔ گھر میں بحث، الزام یا “یہ بات مت کریں” کہنے کے بجائے پہلے ان کے دکھ کو تسلیم کریں، پھر نرمی سے boundaries رکھیں۔
اگر وہ خود کو نقصان پہنچانے کی بات کریں، شدید aggression ہو، کھانا پینا چھوڑ دیں یا گھر سے نکل جائیں تو فوری psychiatric assessment کروائیں۔ مناسب علاج سے mood، نیند، غصہ، یادداشت اور خاندانی تعلقات میں واضح بہتری ممکن ہے۔
ڈسکلیمر: یہ آن لائن معلومات عمومی رہنمائی کے لیے ہیں، مکمل تشخیص یا ذاتی علاج کا متبادل نہیں۔ شدید یا مسلسل علامات میں مستند ماہر سے براہِ راست رابطہ کریں۔
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