Multiple Sexual Issues

I have so many issues related to my sex life. I will try to describe them in words. I am also ready to visit some doctor but this is for a start. My overall personality is some what effeminate, the way I talk, walk or even think. I don't know why is that so but since I was a child I am just like that. I have to face humiliation and bullying at each step of my life, I am still facing it, I want to know the reason behind that, if there is any. I am actually a victim of sexual abuse, I don't know if this has something to do with my situation. I feel depressed all the time. I think that it would be better if i didn't exist, that's how depressed I am. I don't have a normal sexual life, I have no fantasies, I rarely have erection, there is this problem of pre ejaculation. Sometimes I feel like I am an asexual but then I masturbate so that's not a possibility i believe. Is there a reason for this situation of mine and is there a solution?

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MBBS, MRCPsych in Adult Psychiatry (UK) ADHD & Autism Specialist (ADI-R & ADOS - UK) CCT in Child Psychiatry (UK) Cognitive Behaviour therapist (PGC in CBT-UK) | Rawalpindi

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Sorry to hear about your life long sufferings !

Sexual abuse & what you describe could possibly be a gender identity disorder; very often leads to depressive picture.

You need to see a psychiatrist with sound psychotherapy skills.


Dr. Hasan Aman

MBBS, MRCPsych in Adult Psychiatry (UK)

ADHD & Autism Specialist (ADI-R & ADOS - UK)

CCT in Child Psychiatry (UK)

Cognitive Behaviour therapist (PGC in CBT-UK)

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Can you recommend some psychiatrist from Lahore who deals whith these kind of situations? I actually consulted one, I am not going to name him, and it deterioted the situation further. He dealt with me as someone who is walking on a path to hell, because ofcourse 'creatures' like me are not validated by religion. I believe doctors should put their religious beliefs aside while treating their patients. I want someone who can do that. So do you know someone like that in Lahore?

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I have experience of dealing with abuse cases and gender identity issues from UK.

I can do skype consultations if you prefer that ( I m based in RWP / ISL ).

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Ok sure. But can you please give me an abstruct sketch of how this treatement will proceed and how can this help me? What if there is some kind of hormonal imbalance which is causing these changes in my personality? Can you deal with that too?

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Dr. Hasan Aman - Psychiatrist

MBBS, MRCPsych in Adult Psychiatry (UK) ADHD & Autism Specialist (ADI-R & ADOS - UK) CCT in Child Psychiatry (UK) Cognitive Behaviour therapist (PGC in CBT-UK) | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment

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There is no hormnal issue in majority of the cases and it is not required to do hormonal tests.
The main goal of treatment is a stable life.
1-a - The treatment plan is about exploration of who you identity yourself with and what makes you feel that way ( exploring early life experiences , relationships and abuse etc)
1-b- People with gender identity suffer from depression and self harm and they need medications to allievate these symptoms.

My skype ID is retina.skype (I can discuss with you in detail )
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