Marriage Issue

person-avatar

My husband is highly ethical man but we are having lack of physical relationship since born of our baby .. having 3 -4 times in 9 month journey that too was my initiative .. whenever i tried to talk over matter ..he become hyper and v end up with argument .. also initially he was comfortable for monetary terms bt again since past 9 months not only he has taken home expense from me bt also not giving me my pocket money despite of my reminders.. i fl suffocated and unrest all time..he's earning well but highly busy with his work .. my question is .. whether respect is everything..I shouldn't crave to normal my life? At times i want to end up my relation .. pls guide me

Available Doctors to Help you!

You can book appointment with them.

Dr. Ayesha Shahid Sheikh

103 Reviews

Psychologist

MS Clinical Psychology, Ph...

5 Years Experience

View Profile

Sadaf Inayat

70 Reviews

Psychologist

MS, BS (hon)

5 Years Experience

View Profile

Dr. Fareda Zeab

18 Reviews

Psychologist

Masters in Clinical Psycho...

19 Years Experience

View Profile

Faria Rehman

54 Reviews

Psychologist

Ms (Clinical Psychology)

13 Years Experience

View Profile

Shazmin Rafaqat

47 Reviews

Psychologist

BS (hons), MS (Clinical Ps...

6 Years Experience

View Profile

Air Commodore (r) Mumtaz Hussain

23 Reviews

Psychologist

MSC (Psychology), DIP in C...

30 Years Experience

View Profile

saadia-nazir-tazeem-psychologist-lahore
Saadia Nazir Tazeem - Psychologist

MS (Clinical Psychology) | Lahore

Sorry to hear abt the relationship problem, first I would like to know how ur husband lost interest in bejng intimate with u? Wat made him go away ? Was there special precautions during the time of pre n post natal time.?
His version is imp. N also ur beh towards him .duration if ur marriage should mentioned also. How many months have passed following d birth of a baby.
Also wat is his routine n has he stopped being intimate atall, like hugging ,kissing ,or caressing or just avoiding the intercourselves with u?
All D details are important. Also if feasible look in to d fact if he has felt bad abt ur behaviour in any form? Issue is hr has stopped giving u ur poket money, y sudden change in beh? U need to visit a psychologist n discuss all aspects dt cn not b discussed I dis open forum.
I would suggest u ring at 042-32591427,
N take appointment for consultation
Ins u will feel alive.
As for ur question, yes u have a right to ask him n also take step to improve ur life it is imp. N u should take initiative, otherwise it will kI'll ur self esteem n it won't help u on d long run. Also ur husband's relationship with ur child is also to b considered

Member
Patient

Post Owner


My kid is 9 months .. n yes i was victim of postpartum depression too .. I'm extremely caring towards him but sometimes i lost my temper too and in each case i m the one to say sorry ..
The reason i fl in losing interest may b my daughter is sleeping between us .. and yes we do hug but again that is my initiative
Regarding pocket money i feel he has too many responsibilities from his parents side amd they are pressurizing him to buy a home so he's saving madly but my point is .. that is not my issue ..i will surely take an appointment as I'm not in pak that's y seeking online guidance

2 years ago

Member
Patient

Post Owner


Duration is about two years and before arrival of LO he was v normal.. it is just after visit of my mother in law for 5 months that has pushed him away too

2 years ago

Member
Patient

Post Owner


And he is a good father Alhumdullilah

2 years ago

Saadia Nazir Tazeem
Saadia Nazir Tazeem - Psychologist

MS (Clinical Psychology) | Lahore | Book Appointment


So now u see issues are becoming clear ,u seriously need to discuss all dis in detail, I'm glad u r understanding this probe of urs in detail n realizing wat is upsetting
Post partum k liay u also need treatment . Here I cn provide u guideline d way I have done.
Kindly b polite n kind to urself n take consultation from a professional cl psychologist for detailed intervention n management.
U cn fix an appointment at 042-32591427, n u will ins improve in a month
Best wishes

2 years ago

humaira-shahzad-psychologist-lahore

Call 042-32591427, get appointment

shazmin-rafaqat-psychologist-lahore
Shazmin Rafaqat - Psychologist

BS (hons), MS (Clinical Psychology) | Lahore

review-img 47 Positive Reviews

Please call me at +042-32591427, for better consultation

dr-nazish-idrees-psychologist-lahore
Dr. Nazish Idrees - Psychologist

PhD Scholar in Clinical Psychology, MS (Clinical Psychology), Msc (HDFS), B.sc Dietetics,Diploma in Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Diploma in Diet and Nutritional Advisor with distinction, Diploma in Family and Relationship Therapist | Lahore

you are in need of an expert for some time

seek online or one to one clinic session

You will improve with a few therapeutic meetings as needed

https://www.facebook.com/peculiarcoach/

Regards,
Clinical Psychologist and Nutritional Advisor

Card image cap

One-to-One Chat with Doctor

Don't like going to a Hospital?

Consult Online
Book Appointment
View All Categories (A-Z)