Talk to Gynecologist on Pelvic Problem

Aoa. I really need your help in this.i m 24 years old and my health is getting worse day by day. I'm tolerating this problem more than 9 years. I belong to a religious family due to that I couldn't go for a pelvic exam as I'm unmarried but I'm suffering from severe pelvic pains, back pains even now my periods are also disturb and there is also discharge problem. I can't go for a gynae checkup please guide me and recommend me any lady doctor whom i can trust and secretly get treated without knowing my family. Please help.