Talk to Psychiatry on I Think I Have Bpd, Need Help In Diagnosing It
Asking for Self, Female, 20 years old, Pakistan
In every relationship/friendship that i have its only good until we get close, the moment i truly start liking them, i get scared that they wont stay, i feel so intensly for them, i realise its not normal, i also ruin our entire relationship because of this. I want to have absolutely no boundaries, i feel like i want to become one with them. I feel extreme jealousy and possessiveness with them, and feel hatred for the person they might be close to. Even if there is no threat of abandonment i take precausions to prevent said abandonment, which only causes more harm in the relationship. Then i proper beg and plead for them to stay, when they eventually get tired of my unhealthy behaviour of mood swings. I get very emotionally unstable, and dont know how to handle it. Almost all my relationships are unstable, one day i feel extreme love and another day extreme hatred for the same person. Im certain im suffering with bpd.
you need counseling ma'am, some facts are normal some not, hope so you'll be fine with some counseling
Asalamu Alaikum wa Rehmatullahi wa Barakatuhu.
You are indeed going through a difficult situation. It is good that you have some understanding of your emotional conditions that affect your relationships in a negative manner.
Kindly, book an appointment for in depth assessment, and management of your condition. Medications and Cognitive Behaviour Therapy or Dialectical behaviour therapy, etc can be of good benefit for such conditions. You would learn life skills such a emotional regulation, mindfulness and other techniques during this process. Please remember, that, therapy is a process that needs commitment, time and intention to learn and heal. one has to put in hardwork and sincere efforts to come out on the top.
looking forward to hearing from you, soon.
Assoc. Prof. Dr. Saira Farhan - Psychiatrist
MBBS, FCPS (Psychiatry), Diploma In Humanistic Integrative Counseling | Karachi
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It is difficult to work on yourself...Don't jump to diagnose yourself...
meditation, physical activity and journaling your feelings and thoughts can help you until you see a professional.
Farhana Shams - Clinical Psychologist
BS.Hons (Psychology), Post Graduate Diploma (Clinical Psychologist), M.Phil (Applied Psychology) | Mansehra
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you need to consult a clinical psychologist for therapy to regulate emotions and work on your insecurities
you can book an appointment with me also.
thank you
Aoa ! Do you have any previous medical history ? or using any kind of medicine ?
Homoeopathy deals with such problems humbly get ur appointment .Not only this all aside problems will get resolve .only need ur history .
if needed counseling will be done .
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