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I want to ask that I am living with my husband who in other way is wonderful person but he suddenly has severe outbursts over small stupid stuff that has caused so much stress to me i have panic attacks. For example i asked him not to horn padestrian ( which is very wrong here) he becomes so defensive that it was padestrian fault not his so why am i telling him to not do it. He first shook car ( our 5 year was in back thankfully in carseat) to make me think I did wrong telling him not to horn then there was path (cement wall in between two road like green belt) he drove with high speed towards that as if he is gonna hit it with anger. I almost screamed my heart out . He moved car on road just before hitting. I had panic attacks after that . This was extreme act i was always scared of, now he is acting so normal as if nothing happened. It was my fault and i am just draging padestrian thing and just let it go. I am tyalmost numb at this point . Can such a person get counseling and trea
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where r u from and we need to discuss some kore details for best solution. counseling is very effective in such cases but your husband has to be mentally prepare for this. some basic details are required to proceed next. kinldy so contact via marham and book an online consultation or mail on h a 1 7 9 3 3 4 0 @ gmail. com
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yes sure counselling and psychotherapy will be effective in all aspacts .please book your appointment for detail history and solution .
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I’m truly sorry you had to go through this — it sounds very frightening, and your panic is completely understandable. This wasn’t your fault; asking someone to drive safely is normal. His reaction was extreme and shows he may be struggling with anger or emotional control. Yes, he can get help through anger-management or individual therapy, but only if he is willing. Please also take care of yourself and seek support if you need it. You deserve to feel safe, respected, and heard. if you want to take a therapy session book your appointment for a session through Marham thanks!.
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In this scenario, both partners need counselling coz one is provoking the other partner, and the other overreacts
I understand your situation and it's not easy for you but we need to discuss in detail about his past and things that are bothering him . Don't Worry book a session with a psychologist that suits you.
No person gets treatment if they are not willing to participate in treatment. Firstly, you need to make it clear to him that he is doing wrong. For this purpose, you can involve your family members or in-laws.
Maybe this will cause a reduction in the occurrence of this behavior again.
Sometimes family can perform better than a professional.
Your reaction was just normal at that situation, yes your husband can get counselling and treatment if he is willing to do so.
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definitely it is required to find out what is problem with your husband,are there any mental health issues with him,at the same time,it is must to find out what are the negatively reinforcing factors between you two. detailed history from you might be sufficient to reach out the problem,and it is online possible.
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if he agrees to visit a therapist for couple counseling then maybe. To keep your mental health better, you should consult a counselor too
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He may have MDD / Depression. He must consult a psychologist through marham.pk for proper assessment and treatment. Regards and prayers.
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Of course u both have issues and if such situation persists it will also effect negatively to ur children. On the other hand if u want to control ur husband that is also not possible. You can convince him to get help if he is unable to control his anger. Second as far ur panic attacks concerned just try to avoid to instigate ur husband. Presently ignore his negative conducts as wrong doing is also a mode of attention seeking. Ur husband has low self esteem hence he tries to control his environment through anger. If professionally say u both need professional help
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It sounds like you experienced a very unsafe and frightening situation. Sudden intense anger, defensiveness, and dangerous driving are not normal outbursts — they can be signs of emotional dysregulation, unresolved stress, or deeper psychological issues.
Yes, such a person can get help through individual therapy (to work on anger, impulse control, and emotional regulation) and couple counseling if you feel safe to join. But your safety and your child’s safety come first.
Please don’t blame yourself. His reaction was not your fault.
I would encourage you to reach out for professional support for yourself as well, especially for the panic attacks and stress you are experiencing.
If you ever feel unsafe again, take it seriously and prioritise your protection.
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yes it is possible to have a look at past events it can be treated and manageable through counseling. first you need to take an individual session so that we can understand the whole scenario and after word I'll give you the plan of action according to that situation of your husband.
What you described is not a small outburst. it is unsafe behaviour that has deeply affected you. Your fear and panic are valid. Yes he can benefit from anger-management and couples therapy but your emotional and physical safety must come first. I would encourage you to seek individual support as well so we can help you process this trauma and decide the next steps with clarity.
See a psychologist for family therapy, particularly couple therapy
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