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I am famous as a sarrial person in my inlaws. I live in a joint family. I got married three years ago. I have a 2 year old baby . Everyone loves her. But try to overshadow me. Baby is attached with her phupo n dada dadi. . They love her. But spoil her at the same time. I am upset about it. My rules for restricting her screen time and no mobile is making my baby distant from me. I crave for her love. But she prefer to be with them. Becoz they provide her screen time . She is yelling and shouting if we didn't fulfil her wish. . My mind never let me stay in peace. M always thinking and thinking over some non existing issues. I don't want to away my baby from them but i want to feel included. All the guests relatives come and ask any thing about irha from them.not from me. When i got married. My jethani who came from a wealthy family. My inlaws always preferred her over me. Even when i was pregnant they didn't take care of me even when i was not feeling well. And expect me to do all the chores.
Asst. Prof. Mr Umar - Psychologist
M.Sc Psychology | Islamabad
1st u have to realize that now she is ur family priority next generation ate hy tu last walo ki value gir jate hy it’s human nature u can’t make them to choose u 2nd thing ur mother control Karen child ko Kya ka kyna Dena hy it’s on u it’s not in them they are not parents ur mother at end apko jawab Dey hona hy child ka unko nai wh kch b Karen her sawal ap se poucha Jana hy abt ur child so take control in ur hands
Asif Raza Sheikh - Psychologist
Masters (Clinical Psychology), ADCP (Advance Diploma in Clinical Psychology), CDCP(Child Diploma in Clinical Psychology), CBT (Diploma in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy ) | Islamabad
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First of all, why are you comparing yourself with your jethani and developing an inferiority complex? It is human nature to compare ourselves with others, but it is not helpful. If she comes from a wealthy family, your in-laws may be more cautious in dealing with her because they do not want to upset her. Whether right or wrong, this can happen in many families. You should respect yourself and recognise your own worth. Do not expect other people to behave exactly as you want, because every individual has their own personality, values, and way of thinking. Your self-worth should never depend on how others treat you. Secondly, although your son's phuppo and grandmother love him very much, that does not mean they should spoil him. First, have a calm discussion with your husband about your concerns. Then, together, make a daily routine for your son that gradually reduces his screen time and encourages healthier activities. You mentioned that you do not want to keep your child away from them, and that is understandable. However, at this stage, your son's well-being and healthy development are more important than the affection he receives from other family members. Sometimes, as a parent, you have to set clear boundaries. You need to learn to say "no" when necessary, and remember that this is not being rude—it is your right and your responsibility as a mother to do what is best for your child.
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Getting your priorities straight isn't something to be ‘sarrial’. This is what we call ‘Managing your relations’
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آپ کی بات سے لگ رہا ہے کہ مسئلہ صرف آپ کی بیٹی کا دوسروں کے ساتھ attached ہونا نہیں ہے۔ اصل تکلیف یہ ہے کہ کافی عرصے سے آپ خود کو family system میں ignored اور emotionally overshadowed محسوس کرتی رہی ہیں اور اب یہی احساس motherhood میں بھی trigger ہو رہا ہے۔
مسلسل overthinking emotional hurt اور بچے کو کھونے کا خوف آپ کے ذہنی سکون کو مزید متاثر کر سکتا ہے۔ اچھی بات یہ ہے کہ psychotherapy میں ان emotional patterns کے ساتھ ساتھ healthy boundaries parenting concerns اور overthinking پر باقاعدہ کام کیا جا سکتا ہے۔
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I get it it must be tough for you but you should work on yourself first and start creating boundries and talk about it first you amd your partner should be on the same page then communicate these things . For further help and guidance do consult so that i can help you with your situation
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Your feelings are entirely valid. Managing the deep pressures of joint-family dynamics, feeling sidelined in your own home, and dealing with conflicting parenting styles (like screen time boundaries) is incredibly overwhelming and isolating.In my practice, I specialize in family systems, boundaries, and maternal mental health. Feel free to reach me out to schedule a session.
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