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Asking For Self, Male 30, Lahore
when someone laugh at me or mock me then my beliefs system is triggered and i can't move my attention from my pain inside my body.i imagine future scenario to reply them strongly in my imagination. i try hardly to focus outside and i also repeat some mantra inside my mind like ' I'm ok, their sayings don't define my worth'. besides this i also feel powerless and worry about my future treatment of me by them. what should I do
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this is reflecting your mind's obsessional pattern, which required to learn the techniques to get rid.
well your question has a lot of sides #1 in which situation you are living at the age of 30 married or un married? work place? siblings ? parents alive or not if alive how is your relationship with them and so on. however currently you are using the defense mechanism of fantasy you imagine to do so but in reality you can't this may be associated with your fears of past and future which you have mentioned also. you have not mentioned anything about your stressors if any. well you need to try live in present. deal with your stressors and have some exercise and walk so that your mind could be strengthen.
So you give your controller to them and let them handle you easily!!! No dear you should focus on some easy steps when such situations happen !! Book your session it’s treatable
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Do keep positive affirmation to your self it's normal to feel sometimes powerless
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you should apply cognitive restructuring
don't worry only need to work on your cognition and thought processes through various techniques. . book my session for treatment , you will be able to lead a happy life InshahAllah
well , your trigger is normal but the pain you feel and worthlessness is not good at all. this is not sudden, must correlate with past experiences, so past history required through CBT you can feel yourself better.
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What you're describing is a very human and painful experience. The feeling of being triggered and powerless is a sign that this isn't just a surface-level annoyance; it's hitting a core belief about yourself.
You need to build an inner foundation so solid that their behavior loses its power to shake you.
Be patient with yourself. I would suggest you to seek professional help, who can assist you to overcome this moral injury and rebuild a version of yourself that knows, deep down, that your worth is not up for public debate.
We Need to work on these issues and resolve them as soon as possible. Book a session with me and we will discuss in detail.
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Aoa. Your self-esteem and confidence seem low.
You can opt for a session (online/in person), if you want to get rid of all the unnecessary thoughts. Focus on self-improvement, as a result,people's remarks on you wont be important at all.
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Aoa Sir, I think you've had some childhood experiences that might be contributing to these issues. Maybe you need to talk it out and find some solution .
Please try to remain in the present and not in the past or future. you meet up a psychologist through marham.pk
You have to take psychotherapy.
All you need to learn is EMOTIONAL REGULATION and a bit ASSERTIVENESS. Thats it.
you need to learn emotional regulation
You should take counseling sessions, which will help you change your thinking patterns. You should try to rebuild your hope to avoid worry.
It sounds like your mind goes into ‘threat mode’ when you feel mocked, which is why the pain and overthinking become intense. Remember: other people’s reactions do not define your worth. Start grounding yourself with slow breathing, challenge the fearful thoughts, and set small boundaries. With therapy, you can unlearn this trigger and feel back in control.
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You need psychological sessions for further evaluation and treatment of your problems, if feasible book your appointment.
Thank you for reaching out with your question. I understand your concern. To help you with treatment a detailed assessment is essential. I recommend you to book an online appointment for further assistance.
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instead of repeating sentences in your mind,you need to learn assertiveness skills or techniques to deal with criticism for which I would suggest you to take sessions from a clinical psychologist.
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Book your online
appointment with us it would be helpful if you want in person session your all openly welcome to Gulburge medical centre
Gulburge green Islamabad for your session
m glad you address your problem and talk about it openly it's better and important for you to book an appointment, so that we can treat your issue through proper guidance and assessment
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