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Asking For Self, Male 27, London
Hi, I am 27 Years old originally from Sialkot living in Uk from last 4 years. I have serios question related to sexual orientation. I am male with no medical history, but when it comes to sexual attraction I always choose men over women. Its not developed in recent times but it was always in me since the age of puberty or even before that. I need answers keeping the religon and islam on side because its not in my hands. I even try to feel about women but end up feel depressed and loser. I want to get out of this as this is become serios issue now in my life and I couldn't focus on my other goals.
The purpose of sex in not only enjoyment but it is also for procreation mean to extend the human race forward. There is certain thing that attract us but it is not necessary that we do all the things that we find entertaining for us. First of all how much u are motivated to come out of this habit. If u involve as in active role it is just conditioned habit. Habits can be modified. Try at ur best to refrain from doing so though u feel looser or depressed. If u feel u require professional help then consult some professional.
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I have said it before and I will say it again, sexual orientation is something that no therapist or Psychologist can help you with. it\'s a completely personal choice, whether you want to chose a male or a female as your partner. Any therapist who claims to help you in this, is making a false promise. It\'s not a problem but a matter of choice.
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To my fellow therapist on this page, please stop confusing clients with your personal ideas. Please read new research and literature on what modern psychology says about sexual orientation rather than following the same old school of thought.
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Hi. Sab se pehle, jo aap feel kar rahe hain us mein aap akelay nahi hain. Jaisa aap ne bataya, yeh feelings kaafi arsay se aap ke andar hain, is liye yeh samajhna zaroori hai ke aap ka asal concern zyada tar internal confusion aur emotional distress se related lag raha hai—jahan aap ke thoughts, beliefs aur feelings ke darmiyan conflict ho raha hai. Isi wajah se aap low mood aur self-doubt feel kar rahe hain. Aisi situations mein khud par pressure dalna ya force karna aksar aur zyada distress create karta hai. Is cheez ko behtar samajhne aur manage karne ke liye ek safe aur professional space bohat zaroori hota hai. Ek session mein hum calmly aap ke concerns ko explore kar sakte hain aur aap ko clarity aur emotional stability ki taraf guide kar sakte hain, taake aap apni life goals par dobara focus kar saken. Agar aap chahein, to aap session book kar ke detail mein baat kar sakte hain
you have to counsalt with multidispilanery doctors .1 for harmonal study to check out the leval of femal and male harmone.and second the psychologist who has NLP master ,will break pattron with NLP technique.
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It sounds like you have been struggling with these feelings for a long time, and the distress is coming more from the confusion, guilt, and pressure you are experiencing rather than the attraction itself. Sexual orientation is a deeply personal aspect of human experience and for many people it is not something that can simply be changed through force or selfcriticism. Continuously fighting your thoughts can increase anxiety depression, and feelings of worthlessness. Instead of judging yourself it may help to explore your emotions in a safe, non-judgmental therapeutic environment where you can better understand your identity values and goals. A professional psychologist can support you in managing distress, improving selfacceptance,and helping you focus on living a balanced and meaningful life without shame or selfhatred.
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Aap ka masla bohat jald aur thori si medicine se bilkul theek ho sakta hai, fikar na karein. Tafseel se baat kar lein, kindly online appointment book kar lein.
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I can understand how distressing and isolating this experience has been for you. From what you described, these feelings are not new or sudden, and the emotional conflict around them seems to be affecting your mood, confidence, and focus more than anything else. Trying to force yourself into thoughts or feelings that do not come naturally can increase anxiety, guilt, and depression.
A supportive and confidential mental health discussion may help you better understand your emotions, personal values, stress, identity concerns, and overall wellbeing without judgment. The goal is not to shame you, but to help you live a healthier, emotionally stable, and meaningful life. Proper support can improve mood, focus, sleep, and daily functioning.
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