Talk to Psychologist on Behavioural Changes
Asking for Husband, Male, 36 years old, Karachi
AOA I need some guidance. I have been married for 8 years However over the past few months especially since he got puppy around 4 months ago, his behavior has changed. He seems very involved with them.Since then he sleeps in a separate room and physical intimacy has completely stopped. Sometimes he is very caring then suddenly becomes cold and distant and after arguments kuch time bd acts like nothing happened I feel confused,emotionally exhausted and numb now Could this be a mental health issue or a behavioral pattern? How should I handle this? Thank you
Ms. Momna Rizwan - Psychologist
M.Phil (Clinical Psychology), MSc (Applied Psychology) | Faisalabad
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Dr. Seemab Azam(Licensed Psychologist) - Psychologist
ADCP, M.Phil, QCHP License, MS Clinical Psychology | Lahore
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MS (clinical psychology), MSc (applied psychology), Certified behaviour Therapist(UK) | Gujranwala
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Omar Khan - Psychologist
BS (Hons) Psychology, MS IO Psychology, NLP Practitioner | Lahore
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You need a coping strategy and an execution plan. Please book a session
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Thanks for your response I’ll book a slot
But could you please advise his behavior changed over the last few months especially since he got puppy. Is this a mental health issue or just a behavior pattern? I’m confused and emotionally exhausted
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Dr. Imtiaz Bukhari - Psychologist
PhD (Psychology), MS (Clinical Psychology) | Islamabad
142 Positive Reviews
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Post Owner
Thanks for your response I’ll book a slot
But could you please advise his behavior changed over the last few months especially since he got puppy. Is this a mental health issue or just a behavior pattern? I’m confused and emotionally exhausted
13 hours ago
Rubaab Afzal - Psychologist
MSc in Applied Psychology, Mphil in Clinical Psychology, PGD in Clinical Psychology | Islamabad
1,251 Positive Reviews
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Air Commodore (R) Mumtaz Hussain - Psychologist
| MSC (Psychology) | DIP in Clinical Psychology | One Year Modular Course of Personality Evaluation | Counselling and Psychotherapy | | Lahore
231 Positive Reviews
needs psychological assessment and counselling sessions
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Post Owner
Thanks for your response I’ll book a slot
But could you please advise his behavior changed over the last few months especially since he got puppy. Is this a mental health issue or just a behavior pattern? I’m confused and emotionally exhausted.
13 hours ago
Ms. Aqsa Faqir - Psychologist
Advanced Diploma in Clinical Psychology, MSC Psychology , MPhil Psychology | Burewala
13 Positive Reviews
More information needed for the assessment book your appointment for a session through Marham thanks!
Ms. Mafia Azam - Psychologist
MSc. (applied psychology), MS. (Health psychology), M.Ed (Special Education) , membership of Australian & New Zealand mental health association, member (Pakistan Psychological Association | Lahore
7 Positive Reviews
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Patient
Post Owner
Thanks for your response I’ll book a slot
But could you please advise his behavior changed over the last few months especially since he got puppy. Is this a mental health issue or just a behavior pattern? I’m confused and emotionally exhausted
13 hours ago
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it's normal to have those feelings It seems like you are going through emotional instability and i have gone through your symptoms checklist book a session for detailes
Patient
Post Owner
I had already booked an appointment for couple therapy with a doctor and psychologist at a well known hospital but he refused to go and made excuses saying he doesn’t need therapy.
Now I’m even scared to talk to him because I don’t know how he’ll react he either gets angry or stays distant like I’m not even his wife.
What could this issue be? For now please guide me how to handle this situation as it’s affecting my home environment and I have two small kids (6 and 3 years old)
8 hours ago
it's okay you are struggling due to which you need proper guidance for proper guidance and further procedure book a session now than we can decide what step you should take first
8 hours ago
Ehsan Zafar Awan - Psychologist
MSc (Applied Psychology) Certification in Psychiatry Post Graduate Diploma in Applied Psychology, MS Level in Subjects organizational Behaviour & Management | Islamabad
981 Positive Reviews
I would suggest to start therapy
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Nisar Ahmad - Psychologist
| BS (Hons) in Psychology | MS (Clinical Psychology) | | Mansehra
102 Positive Reviews
It sounds emotionally exhausting and confusing. Your husband behavior may reflect emotional withdrawal avoidance or underlying stress rather than a definite mental illness proper assessment is needed. His sudden distance lack of intimacy and inconsistent behavior suggest unresolved relationship issues. Try to communicate calmly and understand his perspective. If this continues couples therapy or professional consultation is recommended. Also prioritize your own emotional wellbeing
Patient
Post Owner
Thank you for your guidance. I understand what you’re saying
But the issue is he avoids communication and refuses therapy so I’m not sure how to approach him calmly without triggering anger or more distance.
Could you please guide what I should practically do in this situation for now, especially with two small kids at home?
7 hours ago
| BS (Hons) in Psychology | MS (Clinical Psychology) | | Mansehra | Book Appointment
54 Positive Reviews
I understand this is very difficult especially with kids involved. If he avoids communication try approaching him at a neutral time with short statements. rather than pushing for deep discussions. Avoid repeated pressure as that can increase his withdrawal. Focus for now on maintaining a peaceful environment at home, setting small boundaries respect, basic communication and not ignoring your own emotional needs. If he refuses therapy you can still seek individual support to learn coping and communication strategies. Gradual lowpressure efforts and consistency are key in such situations.
6 hours ago
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We need to discuss this in detail. Book a session with me or any other psychologist that suits you.
book your appointment with me and as we proceed and discuss things in detail during session, the issue will be resolved. Inn Shaa ALLAH
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vety commen issues in relatioship.
you need to learn the attachment style of you and your partner.and also you to get gueidence for relationship.and you should take marritaial counselling..
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Patient
Post Owner
I had already booked an appointment for couple therapy with a doctor and psychologist at a well known hospital but he refused to go and made excuses saying he doesn’t need therapy.
Now I’m even scared to talk to him because I don’t know how he’ll react he either gets angry or stays distant like I’m not even his wife.
What could this issue be? For now please guide me how to handle this situation as it’s affecting my home environment and I have two small kids (6 and 3 years old)
8 hours ago
Sammra Akhtar - Psychologist
(Gold-Medalist) MS in Clinical Psychology MSCP, ADCP, NLP, Hypnotherapist, Clinical Psychologist | Lahore
32 Positive Reviews
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Farah Imtiaz - Psychologist
MSc Psychology, M.Ed Special Education, CBT, ABA, RBT, Post Graduate Diploma in Speech and language Therapy | Sargodha
151 Positive Reviews
The reason behind someone's actions can often be complex and multifaceted.. In relationships, changes in behavior might stem from various factors like stress, personal growth, or shifts in priorities.. Understanding the underlying reasons can help in addressing concerns and finding ways to reconnect..
Patient
Post Owner
Thank you for your response. I understand it can have many reasons.
But in my case he refuses therapy avoids communication and there is physical and emotional distance now.
Could you please guide how I should handle this situation for now, especially with two small kids?
8 hours ago
MSc Psychology, M.Ed Special Education, CBT, ABA, RBT, Post Graduate Diploma in Speech and language Therapy | Sargodha | Book Appointment
149 Positive Reviews
Would you like to book a virtual appointment? That way, I can better understand the situation and provide personalized guidance on how to navigate this challenging time..
7 hours ago
Ms Sana Mehmood - Psychologist
|MSc Psychology| | ADCP ( Avance Diploma in Clinical psycology) | | Gujranwala
38 Positive Reviews
Dear this is common in many couples. it can resolve after assessment and counseling. there is a need to consult first and share some of your history of your relationship. it will be alright in shaa Allah. just book your appointment via marham. we are here to help you. thank you
Patient
Post Owner
Thank you for your response. I understand assessment is needed and I’ll book an appointment.
But could you please guide a little since he refuses to attend therapy and avoids communication how should I handle this situation for now especially with two small kids at home?
8 hours ago
|MSc Psychology| | ADCP ( Avance Diploma in Clinical psycology) | | Gujranwala | Book Appointment
30 Positive Reviews
ok no issue you can talk by yourself for husband. you will guide for this. you can book one session only for the discussion. we will talk about it
7 hours ago
Asra Ansari - Psychologist
BS Psychology, Masters in Counselling Psychology | Rawalpindi
1 Positive Reviews
After some time patterns do feel feel distant and it is very common. Patterns require change and needs to feel they can do something for him/herself alone. It is not unusual but very easily manageable. you can simply avoide the conflict by giving them healthy space. give them a chance to return back to the same positive behaviour by himself. Forcing him will only going to sent him away further. It will take time but eventually he will realise your value.
Patient
Post Owner
I had already booked an appointment for couple therapy with a doctor and psychologist at a well known hospital but he refused to go and made excuses saying he doesn’t need therapy.
Now I’m even scared to talk to him because I don’t know how he’ll react he either gets angry or stays distant like I’m not even his wife.
What could this issue be? For now please guide me how to handle this situation as it’s affecting my home environment and I have two small kids (6 and 3 years old)
8 hours ago
BS Psychology, Masters in Counselling Psychology | Rawalpindi | Book Appointment
you can't force someone to take therapy untill or unless they are willing. if someone really wants to put an effort into the relationship they will try. but if you feel like they are not. like i said give him a healthy space to retun back to you in a healthy way.
7 hours ago
Mr. Muhammad Shafiq Langah - Psychologist
MSc (Clinical Psychology), M.Phil. (Clinical Psychology)* | Karachi
32 Positive Reviews
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Ap ka problem buhat jaldi or thori se medicine se complete theek ho jay ga preshan na ho detail bat krlain kindly take book appointment with me
book session and have detail discussion on it.
Try to:
Talk calmly and express your feelings
Understand if he is under stress
Avoid blame
If it continues, couples counseling is recommended. You may also seek support for yourself.
I am available for further guidance if needed.
Patient
Post Owner
I had already booked an appointment for couple therapy with a doctor and psychologist at a well known hospital but he refused to go and made excuses saying he doesn’t need therapy.
Now I’m even scared to talk to him because I don’t know how he’ll react he either gets angry or stays distant like I’m not even his wife.
What could this issue be? For now please guide me how to handle this situation as it’s affecting my home environment and I have two small kids (6 and 3 years old)
8 hours ago
Ms. Iram Shahzadi - Psychologist
MS Clinical Psychology, PDCP, Aesthetic physician | Rawalpindi
73 Positive Reviews
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Ms. Haleema Zulfiqar - Psychologist
| MS (Clinical Psychology) | MSc (Psychology) | Dip (Hypnotherapy) | Course (Counseling Psychology) | Course (Applied Behavior Analysis Therapy) | Course ( Speech Therapy) | Course ( NLP) | | Lahore
90 Positive Reviews
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sb say pehly to on say bat Karyn AP buhat aram say or por-sakoon ho kor couple therapy buhat zarori he ta k es problems ko solve kia ja sky agr AP interested hen to appointment book karwayn via Marham
Patient
Post Owner
I had already booked an appointment for couple therapy with a doctor and psychologist at a well known hospital but he refused to go and made excuses saying he doesn’t need therapy.
Now I’m even scared to talk to him because I don’t know how he’ll react he either gets angry or stays distant like I’m not even his wife.
What could this issue be? For now please guide me how to handle this situation as it’s affecting my home environment and I have two small kids (6 and 3 years old)
8 hours ago
U can Book Ur Appointment with Me
Ms. Atika Abbasi - Psychologist
| BS Psychology |, MS Clinical psychology | Islamabad
71 Positive Reviews
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Rizwan Ali Khan - Clinical Psychologist
| MSc (Psychology) | MS (Clinical Psychology) | Certified (Crucial Conversations) | | Lahore
44 Positive Reviews
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You can see and observe his behaviour, Mood swings, sleeping patterns including sleep cycle, intake levels and social interaction as well as daily chores, if possible kindly do note your own too and your thoughts patterns, emotional responses and feelings do let us know after your assignment
Patient
Post Owner
I had already booked an appointment for couple therapy with a doctor and psychologist at a well known hospital but he refused to go and made excuses saying he doesn’t need therapy.
Now I’m even scared to talk to him because I don’t know how he’ll react he either gets angry or stays distant like I’m not even his wife.
What could this issue be? For now please guide me how to handle this situation as it’s affecting my home environment and I have two small kids (6 and 3 years old)
8 hours ago
Rubaab Afzal - Psychologist
MSc in Applied Psychology, Mphil in Clinical Psychology, PGD in Clinical Psychology | Islamabad
1,251 Positive Reviews
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Rubaab Afzal - Psychologist
MSc in Applied Psychology, Mphil in Clinical Psychology, PGD in Clinical Psychology | Islamabad
1,251 Positive Reviews
Expert in couple counseling
first you go to psychologist
learn skill for dealing with him
Patient
Post Owner
I booked it so I could somehow bring my husband. I even told him that if he doesn’t want to come inside I can go alone because I am experiencing anxiety and mental distress.
While booking the appointment I had already informed the doctor’s assistant that I wanted to first share the full history privately, as I wouldn’t be able to speak openly in front of my husband.
However, he refused even this.
7 hours ago
Ms. Haleema Zulfiqar - Psychologist
| MS (Clinical Psychology) | MSc (Psychology) | Dip (Hypnotherapy) | Course (Counseling Psychology) | Course (Applied Behavior Analysis Therapy) | Course ( Speech Therapy) | Course ( NLP) | | Lahore
90 Positive Reviews
it's ok agr wo.therapy k ley ni a Ra he to AP khud seraf apny ley appointment book karyn or coping skills sekhyn k AP my os ko kaisy handal katna he or khud ko kaisy rakhna he
Ms. Haleema Zulfiqar - Psychologist
| MS (Clinical Psychology) | MSc (Psychology) | Dip (Hypnotherapy) | Course (Counseling Psychology) | Course (Applied Behavior Analysis Therapy) | Course ( Speech Therapy) | Course ( NLP) | | Lahore
90 Positive Reviews
To ap.khud apny ley appointment book karyn agr wo ni aty to ta k AP coping skills sekh sakyn jis say AP k Ghar ka environment b set ho ga AP my apny hasband deal.kaisy Karna he
Or khud b bachana he to kaisy ye sb shamil hota he
Kainat Khan - Psychologist
MSc Applied Psychology, Advance Diploma in Clinical Psychology, M.Phil in Clinical Psychology | Faisalabad
422 Positive Reviews
Take ur appointment in affordable fee with me shukriya
book your session then I properly guide u because this problem is not an easy sewer issue u want to quickly handle tysm
Y u think it’s behavior issue because of puppy may b he is exited
Patient
Post Owner
Since the puppy came, his behavior has shifted significantly. Before this he wasnt like this our home environment was very peaceful calm and consistent. Now he is rude dismissive and emotionally distant. This is affecting me mentally and causing anxiety especially with small kids at home.
5 hours ago
M.Sc Psychology | Islamabad | Book Appointment
27 Positive Reviews
In se bat Karen issue hy Kya wh bta dein gein. May b
4 hours ago
Farhana Shams - Clinical Psychologist
BS.Hons (Psychology), Post Graduate Diploma (Clinical Psychologist), M.Phil (Applied Psychology) | Mansehra
117 Positive Reviews
you should consult a clinical psychologist for proper assessment and therapy rather than a husband. In case, involvement of a husband is necessary then a psychologist would guide you accordingly.
you can also book an appointment with me
thank you
Ehsan Zafar Awan - Psychologist
MSc (Applied Psychology) Certification in Psychiatry Post Graduate Diploma in Applied Psychology, MS Level in Subjects organizational Behaviour & Management | Islamabad
981 Positive Reviews
You need to first book appointment so briefly work at your end. After it few session of your husband can be conducted if necessary. You can book my appointment through Marham
Abbas Ali - Psychologist
M.Sc Applied Psychology, Professional Psychologist Training from PYPA | Lahore
15 Positive Reviews
kia UN ka behavior Sirf ap k lye change hoa ha ya baki family members k sath SB theek ni ha?
First of all you should focus on your thoughts and try to calm yourself and start focusing on the positive things, when you would be calm you can manage your husband and his problems, if you want therapies and techniques to handle your problems book your appointment.
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