Talk to Psychologist on Need Psychological Guidance Regarding My Marriage
Asking for Self, Male, 28 years old, Lahore
I’m going through an extremely difficult phase in my marriage, and it is affecting me emotionally more than I can manage on my own. I’m experiencing intense anxiety, overthinking, jealousy, possessiveness, fear of losing my partner, and difficulty controlling my emotional reactions. There has been a lot of conflict, hurt, mistrust, and unresolved issues between us. We are currently at a point where divorce/separation has been discussed, but I still love my partner deeply and genuinely want to understand whether this relationship can be saved. I also feel that I have unresolved emotions and guilt regarding things that have happened between us, while at the same time I feel deeply hurt by some of her choices and boundaries. I keep going back and forth between wanting to fight for my marriage and feeling that I should let go. I don’t want advice based on assumptions or judgment. I want to speak privately with a qualified psychologist who can help me understand my emotions, control my reactions, process what has happened, and determine what is healthiest for me and my marriage. I would really appreciate it if a psychologist/relationship therapist could reach out to me for a confidential consultation
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Rubaab Afzal - Psychologist
Ph.D in Clinical Psychology, MPhil in Clinical Psychology, MSc in Applied Psychology, PGD in Clinical Psychology | Islamabad
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I read your message, and honestly, it sounds like you’re going through a very difficult and confusing time. You clearly still love your wife and want to understand what has gone wrong, but at the same time you’re carrying a lot of anxiety, hurt, jealousy and fear, and it’s affecting how you react to things. I think the first step is not to rush into deciding whether the marriage should end or be saved, but to understand what you’re feeling and why, and then work on responding to those emotions in a healthier way. You also deserve a space where you can talk openly about everything that has happened without being judged or blamed. If you feel comfortable, I’d be happy to speak with you in a confidential counselling session and help you work through this, understand the patterns in your relationship, and get some clarity about what would be healthiest for you moving forward. You can approach me in my DM or even we can talk on 042-34500888, .
I’ve worked with many clients dealing with complex marriages and relationships. I’d be happy to help you understand what you’re feeling and what would be the healthiest way forward is for you. We can start with an individual session, and based on that, we can decide whether individual or couples therapy would be more appropriate. Please book an appointment at your earliest convenience.
Shaista Nasir - Psychologist
| MSc Applied Psychology | Positive psychiatry | Mental Flourishing Expert | Multan
63 Positive Reviews
جی میں آپ کی situation سمجھ رہی ہوں۔ آپ جس emotional phase سے گزر رہے ہیں وہ واقعی بہت exhausting ہو سکتا ہے۔ ایک طرف آپ اپنی marriage کو بچانا چاہتے ہیں کیونکہ آپ اپنی partner سے deeply attached ہیں اور دوسری طرف anxiety overthinking jealousy اور fear of losing her آپ کو اندر سے بہت disturb کر رہے ہیں۔
آپ کی باتوں سے یہ بھی لگ رہا ہے کہ صرف موجودہ conflicts ہی مسئلہ نہیں ہیں بلکہ کچھ unresolved emotions guilt hurt اور trust issues بھی ہیں جن کی وجہ سے آپ بار بار emotionally trigger ہو جاتے ہیں۔
ایسی situation میں جلدی سے یہ فیصلہ کرنا کہ relationship کو بچانا ہے یا چھوڑ دینا ہے شاید سب سے بہتر پہلا قدم نہ ہو۔ پہلے آپ کو emotionally stable ہونا اور اپنی feelings اور reactions کو سمجھنا ضروری ہے۔ Therapy میں ہم اسی پر کام کر سکتے ہیں تاکہ آپ اپنے emotions کو بہتر regulate کر سکیں اور relationship کو زیادہ clarity کے ساتھ دیکھ سکیں۔
اگر آپ واقعی جاننا چاہتے ہیں کہ آپ کے relationship میں اصل مسئلہ کہاں ہے اور اسے بہتر کرنے کے لیے آپ کو سب سے پہلے کس چیز پر کام کرنا ہوگا تو آپ ایک confidential private session book کر سکتے ہیں۔ آپ کی پوری situation کو بغیر judgement سنا جائے گا اور پھر آپ کے لیے personalized therapeutic direction طے کی جائے گی۔
Shaista Nasir
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Ms Applied Psychology ( PU ) , ADCP (SDC) , Mental Health Expert ( APA, USA ) , Training in Sensory Integration Therapy ( TCHAICH) . Member American Psychological Association ( USA) & Pakistan Psychological Association ( PPA ) | Lahore
233 Positive Reviews
Dear you need counselling and pschotherapy .... u will be recovered soon InshahAllah
What you’re going through sounds emotionally overwhelming, especially when there is love, mistrust, guilt, jealousy, and fear of losing the relationship all at the same time. You don’t have to make an immediate decision about separation or divorce while feeling this overwhelmed. A confidential session can provide a safe, non-judgmental space to understand your emotions, manage intense reactions, work through unresolved hurt, and gain clarity about what may be healthiest for you and your marriage. With the right support, it is possible to respond more calmly and make clearer decisions.
Kindly book an appointment at your earliest convenience
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| BS Psychology |, MS Clinical psychology | Islamabad
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