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Asking for Other, Female, 3 years old, Nowshera
AOA. My daughter who is 3 years 4 months old is very talkative. She hardly stays quiet. It's not that her gossips don't make sense. Prob is she doesn't stop. Also she doesn't stay focussed. Like if she is playing and m sitting in that room. As soon as I get up she immediately leaves playing and follows me. Her attention is not towards her game but on whole environment. She is veryyy active. And there's no other issue . Is it normal? How do I make her stay quiet for some time? She doesn't even let me talk to anybody peacefully. Keeps interrupting as she says she wants to speak.
Aoa, yes it is normal as your child is 3 years 4months. Children like to get attention from everyone. Nothing to worried about.
may b she is having ADHD kindly see a clinical psychologist and get her assessment done, second if its not too much then control her sugar intake and set a time limit for her. for certain things make a plan and ask her to listen to u calmly or either once listen to her for hour and see what she has to say.
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I do not give her added sugar. Nothing sugary. She takes roti salam etc and fruits. Thank u all for yr response. I am also confused if it's ADHD or not.
3 years ago
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well symptoms seems like ADHD detailed history is needed in a way her behavior in school teachers point.
3 years ago
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Not school going maam. Ma'am I ll try booking appointment on Monday in sha allah. Grateful
3 years ago
She is very active and intelligent.. make activities more interesting for her.. by talking she try to take attention.. if you stop or snub her she will loose her confidence. So be careful with your words you use for her.. every child listen and are more focused to environment whats happening but they react differently.. she seems to be more attached to you thats why is clingy toward you.
Get her psychological assesment done, to get a clear picture. There are behavioural issues which can be managed by behavioural therapy
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it looks difficult to guide through text because your daughter looks highly quirious i think baby is highly intelligent and struggling to understand her surroundings word very quickly.
but suggest you must have to visit inperson either online to any psychologist for her better understanding ,Assessment and therapy if needed.
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She will not even sit for online consultation. Lol. One thing is I have given her very nutritional diet always. Added dry fruits etc. May be she is intelligent?
Get an appointment for complete assessment
walaikum assalam... yes this is normal for this age. i also have the same experience..such kids get things very quickly... when they r getting talkative then listen to them and stopping or ignoring her will make her stubborn... when she will go to school then notice her ... probably she will settle down but for now does not need sessions etc.she only wants attention...
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3 year age is Child Questioning age and usually child speaks alot in this age , but depends what and how they talk, i want to ask you few questions , 1. Is your child repeat your sentences ? 2. or is your child repeat her own sentences again and again ? 3.Is she feel attraction toward very sharp,brighter objects in envirnment and pay more attention toward them ,while attending object , she ignore envirnment?
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So its normal
if child behavior doest not distrub you and not effects her functionality.
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Every child and every case has individual nature. Your child is proactive. Detailed investigation can only find indicators for hyperactivity. Your query suggests that you may require advanced #parenting-strategies to empower yourself and the child. Since every case is unique, one can only guide you better after going through a standard interview with you (not the child) and some observations of the child.
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Kids may talk nonstop if they’re stressed about something. They may not have strategies for calming themselves, and so they talk and talk. Some kids have trouble with social skills in general. They have a hard time picking up on social cues like body language and facial expressions. So they may not notice how other people are reacting to their talking. Trouble with self-control can also be a factor. Some kids are impulsive and have a hard time putting off what they want to do.
Some strategies to help your child have more control over it.Role-play conversations. Help your child focus on listening by asking questions about what you’ve been saying.
Have your child write it down.Teach your child to “stop, look, and listen.” Show your child how to stop every few sentences and look to see how the other people in the conversation are reacting. Do they look or sound annoyed?
Always appreciate your child when she behave in desirable way.
W. Slam. It's seems like some tendency of hyperactivity. You should visit a psychologist to assess your daughter. She needs some kind of help. Psychologist guide you about home activity that you can do at home with her to reduce these issues. May Allah bless your child
WS. Give her some academic tasks. Provide her toys n indoor games. Create a school environment, give her colouring copies work. Don't get worried. let her eat well & sleep for 10-11 hours. you can consult me through marham.pk for thorough investigation n counseling.
Its called hyperactivity (hyperactive kid). You don't need to worry about this though.
But considering to talk to a Psychologist will really help you in this regard. I am practicing and studying child Psychology professionally you can contact me via Marham.
this is not a serious issue.. no need to worry about... consult a psychologist who will guide you...
w lakum Salam PL tel me about how many childrens u have
okay u have only child first she has no siblings and she look only parents so she observe parents so u have to deal her softly and observe her behaviour and deal her carefully and busy her in activities so she fulfil tasks some work related tasks and be care full while watching TV and incourage her on good behaviour and on Rong tel her it is not good so the child had an idea what is right and Rong and offer prayer in front of her and resite Quran beco as she listion inshallah she will be fine and contact to any psychologist for further betterment thanks
3 years ago
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Jazak Allah Ma'am. That's wat I have been doing for past week. Have indulged her in story time. Have been dealing with her softly. Previously I used to be angry with her on pity issues. Now I have seen improvement in her. She loves listening to stories and behaves quite good during that time. If m angry she is angry and vice versa.
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