Talk to Pediatrician on Tantrums And Stubbornness
Asking For Other, Female 27, Rawalpindi
I'm a mother of a 1.4years old baby girl as she's growing up her behavior is getting a bit challenging for me... when she doesn't get or like something she starts crying quickly and sometimes lay down on the floor so in such case what should be my response? should I leave her as it or pamper her?
Farhana Shams - Clinical Psychologist
BS.Hons (Psychology), Post Graduate Diploma (Clinical Psychologist), M.Phil (Applied Psychology) | Mansehra
consult a clinical psychologist or behavioral therapist.
you can also book an appointment with me for further details. need detailed information.
thank you
It's normal for children,with time they will improve.
its normal for Babies
just make sure he is safe
Hello, this is normal for children of this age. Sometimes when children are hungry ,sleepy or disturbed because of anything else and they can’t communicate it clearly to you they start giving tantrums. You should stay calm and try to communicate with her. Observe her why is she doing and reassure her that you are with her. Children might not be speaking properly but they are understanding every word you say even if you are not directly talking to them. Thank you
Wat abt her eye contact n other behaviour. Wat abt speech?
Patient
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she's too small for speaking so that's why it's difficult for me to understand and respond
1 year ago
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ASA, first of all tell is she only child or has other siblings? Also do you live in Joint family or independently?
Try to stay Neutral neither you should pamper Nor be Rough to her..Observe what Triggers a particular behavior..Maybe she feels neglected and Tries to draw Your Attention.
Observe closely and try to Respond without getting worked up.
Patient
Post Owner
I live in a joint family but she's very loved by everyone and she's my only child but she gets stubborn when I take something from her or she wants something
1 year ago
Then I think she is A bit spoiled and over pampered..Try to slowly Treat her normally..Ignore over Reaction by her But it doesn't mean Neglect her.Give her balanced Responses.
it's completely treatable after taking some medicine don't you worry detailed history required kindly book appointment with me
please visit a Paediatrician. also she might need assessment by a psychologist
try to slowly tapper of her pampering sometimes child who are one n only become stubborn n knows that Mera aisa kernay say mere bat mane jaye Gye slowly n gradually kbhe bat manyen kbhe ignore Karen after sometimes she will realize Kay her bat mane nhn jate n secondly she is a child she doesn't know how to behave take her as a child n gradually reduce her pampering
Laiba Asad - Clinical Psychologist
BS. Clinical Psychology, MS. Clinical Psychology | Lahore
3 Positive Reviews
As the children are growing up, there verbal and non verbal communication skills are limited. At age of 1-2 years, there verbal communication is not fully developed due to which they face difficulty in expressing their needs that can lead to a tantrum.
• Breathing exercises: help child to relax and calm down
• Distraction technique: provide a distraction such as an activity when child shows tantrum
• Reinforcement: reward the child when he shows to express feelings in behaviors other than tantrums
• Offer choices: give choices to child so they can develop sense of self-control
• Positive attention: give positive attention to avoid tantrumd
• Model good behavior: practice good habits at home to express emotions so that child can model those behaviors.
• Provide a safe space: be calm and provide comfort to your child to express themselves. Be empathetic towards the child and increase healthy parent-child interaction by playing with child or engage him in different tasks with yourself.
• Emotional regulation: teach the child to express emotions and understand them for example I am feeling angry.
MBBS, FCPS Paediatrics | Lahore | Book Appointment
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hw breathing exercise possible in 2 years old
1 year ago
BS. Clinical Psychology, MS. Clinical Psychology | Lahore | Book Appointment
What I meant to say wa not proper breathing exercises sir but help child to relax actually.
1 year ago
BS. Clinical Psychology, MS. Clinical Psychology | Lahore | Book Appointment
Also,a child doesn't have the concept of deep breathing, but exercise like blowing balloons or imitating elders' breathing can serve the very purpose.
1 year ago
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