Talk to Gynecologist on Menstrual Disturbance

I always has 26 to 28 days cycle but now it us reduced to 20 to 24 days max and premenstrual period is highly symptomatic with s bpne breaking shoulder and legs pain. Extreme mood swings and zero energy level. I was always very polite but now my temper has gone beyond my control. These symptons starts 10 days before. I have early menopausal history of mom at the age of 45. Am i heading towards it. I used to take multi vits but now for past many years I am not taking any. I dont hv any recent labs but 2 years back had Vitamin D, calcium, blood test and throid profile and all came normal. These symptoms almost paralyse my life for that period. I do hv few very active days but very few. Please help